My Own Happiness Project

My Own Happiness Project
because happiness begins inside and flows out...

20100331

coffee quote from the gilmore girls.....

The Pilot Episode - Opening Dialogue

Lorelai walks past a sign that says "Stars Hollow Founded 1779" and crosses the street. She goes into Luke's coffee shop. She takes off her coat and walks up to the counter, coffee cup in hand.

Lorelai: Please, Luke. Please, please, please.
Luke: How many cups have you had this morning?
Lorelai: None.
Luke: Plus...
Lorelai: Five, but yours is better.
Luke: You have a problem.
Lorelai: Yes, I do.

Luke pours her coffee.

Luke: Junkie.
Lorelai: Angel. You've got wings, baby.

A man watches Lorelai drink her coffee, then walks over to her.


Joey: You make that look really good.
Lorelai: Oh it is really good. It's the best coffee in town.
Joey: Oh yeah? I'll have to get a cup.
Lorelai: Good plan.

Lorelai: Sorry and I will get you some coffee.

Lorelai takes a coffee cup up to Luke, who gives her a stare...

Lorelai: What? It's not for me. It's for Rory, I swear.
Luke: You're shameless.

Luke: So what'll you have?
Lorelai: Coffee, in a vat.
Rory: I'll have coffee also. And chili fries.
Luke: That's quite a refined palate you got there.

Luke: Coffee, fries. I can't stand it. This is so unhealthy. Rory, put down that coffee. You do not want to grow up to be like your mom.
Rory: Sorry, too late.

freedom

A take on freedom, noted as I was browsing other people's blog again today...

Freedom Means Responsibilities

If we wish to free ourselves from enslavement,
we must choose freedom and the responsibility it entails.
There's a price for every freedom, something to be given up for every liberty.
It's up to us to weigh the price we must pay for each of our freedoms.
Everything we want has a price.
There's a price we'll have to pay for changing things and a price we'll pay for leaving things as they are.
Freedom is the opportunity to make decisions.
It's the capacity to take a hand in our own development.
Freedom is the right to choose.
It's the right to create for ourselves the alternatives of choice.
No one is free who is not master of himself.
We are free to do whatever we like.
We need only face the consequences of our actions.

20100324

arteo listing it down.....

While attracted to this article in the email, I became peculiarly in the mood for lists of wisdom and felt that sense of duty to share some of the gems with everybody in my blog... and got distracted from work, while at that. Totally fail.com, heh....

Anyway...

7 Strategies to Avoid Distraction at Work
By: Laurence Roy Stains

Very few men are endowed with the sort of concentration that allows them to cut through clutter and get the job done. Most of us are overwhelmed screwballs who need to learn what this focus thing is all about.

Athletes are always striving to perfect their focus. "You have to pay attention to the most task-relevant cues," says Robert M. Nideffer, Ph.D., a performance psychologist in San Diego and president of Enhanced Performance Systems. "You've got to separate signal from noise."

If you're going to advance your game and post a win, you can't get distracted—by the noise around you or the noise inside your head. You have to pinpoint what's important and execute accordingly.

The enemy of focus is distraction. Only during an Internet bubble could a distraction be so pie-in-the-sky. Usually it takes the form of the work that has to be out the door by 5 p.m. When that workload reaches inbox-busting proportions, it sucks up all your attention. The result? You get so caught up in what's urgent, you lose focus on what's important.

That crucial distinction was made by Stephen Covey in The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, and it is, for my money, the best part of that best-selling classic. If you spend your days reacting to the urgent but often unimportant priorities of others, your career will consist of putting out fires. You may be efficient—but will you be effective?

Your top priorities, the things that will help you keep focused, should be your long-term goals—the projects that will define you, advance your career, and maintain your passion for your line of work.

Only your boss gets the luxury of concentrating full-time on what's important. And we all know why he's able to do that—he delegates the urgent stuff to you. If you're dizzy with conflicting demands on your time, how can you keep your eyes on the prize? Here are some smart ways.

Think by the Week

Most planning tools—calendars, daily planners, and to-do lists—help you be more efficient. But you're only prioritizing your crises each day.

Covey's cure-all: a weekly worksheet. Organize your life on a weekly basis; this allows you to schedule time for your top priorities and the actions that prevent crises.

Tell People to Leave You Alone

"It takes the average person 2 to 15 minutes to recover from each interruption," says time-management coach Joy Baldridge of Baldridge Seminars International. "Interruptions are the biggest time robbers and focus busters."

To minimize an interruption, she recommends her "plus, plus, dash" trick. Say two nice things (the plus, plus, or ++), then dash (-) off. Example: "Hey, great to see you. I wish I could talk now. Right now isn't good, though; let's talk at 3."

Clear Off Your Desk

Is your desk a mess? I hope so. Psychologists have discovered that messy desks are a necessity in a wide variety of careers. They're also distracting. Although we're barely conscious of it, we all have the same method to our madness.

We keep a "hot" pile of papers, probably next to the phone; a "warm" pile or two toward the edges of the desk; and various "cold" piles atop the filing cabinet and every other square inch of horizontal space. These last are mostly completed projects or "just in case" materials.

Their presence may ratchet up your sense of being overwhelmed. "As emotional arousal increases, focus becomes more difficult," says Nideffer. So take a rainy Saturday to stash or trash that stuff.

Straighten Out Your Life

If your output is down but your workload is the same, maybe something is bugging you. "One of the hardest things to realize is when your own emotions are slowing you down," says Jeffrey P. Kahn, M.D., a psychiatrist in New York City and president of the consulting firm WorkPsych Associates.

"Listen to what people tell you. If they ask, 'Are you okay?' it's appropriate to say, 'I'm fine,' but then ask yourself, 'Am I okay?' " If, on the other hand, you feel frazzled, but everyone admires your ability to juggle a zillion tasks, then give yourself some credit: You're multifocal. "I see that a lot, particularly among very successful people," says Dr. Kahn.

Respond Right Away

"In high-pressure situations, people tend to rush," says Nideffer. You've done this, I'm sure—you get an e-mail or memo, and because it requires a moment of thought or the retrieval of more information, you set it aside. Later on, you come back to it (when you're even more rushed) and spend time trying to figure out where you left off.

Try not to pick up the same piece of work twice. "Read it and respond," says Dr. Kahn, "rather than put it aside and think you'll respond later."

Carve Out Time

If you're feeling overwhelmed, break it down. Ask yourself, "What is it, exactly, that I'm not getting to, and how can I get to it?" Doctors need to return phone calls, contractors need to take care of paperwork, salesmen need to sit down and make long-term plans. They all need to carve out an hour or two for these tasks. "Protect that time," advises Dr. Kahn. "Then you don't have to worry about it while you go about your day."

Pick the Low-Hanging Fruit

In the end, your workday will inevitably be a hodgepodge—a crazy salad of big projects, short deadlines, interruptions, distractions, and surprises. Roll with it all, but make sure to do what Dr. Kahn calls "picking the low-hanging fruit—tackling the easy tasks that you can get done quickly. That helps you feel like you're on track."

18 things worth fighting for....

18 Things Worth Fighting For
By: Mike Zimmerman
  1. Your workout schedule. Nonnegotiable. A deal breaker. Make sure everyone knows it.
  2. The theory that two people must have sex before they can ever be in love. Because you can't love someone until you know that person fully—and sex brings many revelations. Ermmmm...
  3. Your favorite band/movie/team/political party/religion—which, you've just been told, sucks. It may indeed suck. So what? Someone just ground your passions under his heel. Let him have some.
  4. Fifteen percent off. You'll get 10.
  5. Your rung on the ladder. The salary's still there, you still have your office, but something's off. They're making plans without you. Your turf has eroded. Time to shine again.
  6. Your right to leave the bar as early and as soberly as you want. You will be called many names. You are none of these things.
  7. Your equally valuable right to hand your keys to a buddy and have another round. Morning will hit hard and fast, but sometimes you have to risk short-term-memory loss in the name of long-term-memory gain.
  8. A free phone. They get a check every month for 2 years? Yeah, free phone.
  9. That brief stretch of time that is your own. You may not get it until 10 p.m., but make sure you get it, because after commute time, company time, dinnertime, and quality time, your time is the last defense against total annihilation of the self.
  10. Your habits. She's dying to change you, but she should know up front that men don't change. We can evolve, however, and that takes time.
  11. A perfect combination of retained youth and acquired wisdom. Especially as it applies to nooky.
  12. The true source of her silence, her headaches, her thickening layer of frost. It may be you, or it may not. But whatever it is, get it out there, because this crap cannot go on.
  13. The remote. A guy we know broke his leg fighting for the remote. And he'd do it again.
  14. The sanctity of the line. Whether the dirtball tries it with a car or his own cloven feet, his butting in line is a grievous insult—he's saying his time is more valuable than yours. We're all on the same death clock, pal. Deny him. Hard. The mob will back you.
  15. Making money from that one thing you're best at. There has to be a way to cash in.
  16. The real answer. Sales reps, bureaucrats, and bosses of every stripe are where they are because people settle for their pat, evasive answers. Pound their bullsh-- position with a fusillade of toddler logic: But why?
  17. The mail-in rebate you still haven't received. Companies count on lazy consumers. Be their nightmare.
  18. Happiness. Can't swing that? Strive for absence of misery. Then keep going.

20100315

out of roads.......

Veepee Pinpin
from Something More: Songs for Skeptics


This is one of those emotional songs you'd really hate for them to play during Camp's Worship time... because it will inevitably break some tears! I may not have observed much of Lent this year, but I'd reflect on my situation, very much like the chap who is singing this song. A (probably) smart (so I've heard) fellow with lots of head knowledge (then again), thinks that he knows much by studying and able to interpret the stars. So he ventures out of his father's house, spending his times and life till he comes to this night, when he looks at the stars again and wonders why is he still lost... But determination has another name, some calls it perseverance, and he stay on. But he knows that he's just delaying the inevitable, for he has this haunting need that he can't deny... But maybe tomorrow?

Out of Roads...

I just ran out of roads again
Don't know where to turn
I started counting stars again
Then I lost my way

I just ran out of time again
Will I ever learn?
To stop my chase of hours again
Only to learn I've lost the day

The last thing I need is to hear
This whisper in the wind
The last thing I want is this voice
That rises from within

I'll need to go home soon, I know
But maybe tomorrow, not now
The last thing I need here and now
is this lasting need for You

I've been rushing out of rooms again
Too afraid to stay
I've been dreaming of some rainbows end
But the colours melt away

Should my heart be like an open door
Help us to restore
Permit Your wind to touch my soul
Only to leave this aching song

The last thing I need is to hear
This whisper in the wind
The last thing I want is this voice
That rises from within

I'll need to go home soon, I know
But maybe tomorrow, not now
The last thing I need here and now
Is this lasting need for You

The one thing I need is to hear
Your whisper in the wind
The one thing I want is Your voice
That rises from within

I'll need to go home soon, to You
Won't wait for tomorrow, right now
For the one thing I need here and now
Is this haunting need for You
Is this haunting need for You

retweet from boidea.....

As seen on the notice board outside the main hall I suppose. Vic's and Dean's names were so screwed, they should sue the school.

Another reason for being nostalgic.

20100312

arteo gets nostalgic.......

Jeffery's Rounds circa year 1999 - 2000

I wonder if I'd ever relive those good old times, ever again.... sigh.

20100307

world book day @times bookstore......


Times World Book Day

20% off storewide discounts for TPC members
10% off storewide for non-members
Additional 5% off on 4 March for TPC members
Free limited edition notepad with purchase of RM50
Free TPC membership with purchase of RM100

Available at all Times Bookstores

www.timesbookstores.com.my

20100306

arteo learns the technical stuffs....


Okay, I think I've reached the edge of my sanity in trying to do my own website without professional help... so I've got a Dummy to teach me. Errmm, I think reading this guide makes ME the dummy here, heh. Anyway, that's another RM87.78 out of the wallet, into the climbing cost of putting up Philosoffee webpage on my own... It had better worth it!! Damn.

20100223

chicken and bull war........

Just found these to be funny, something I found while researching for vegetarian diet plan...

20100222

salad for a while.....

Thinking out loud to myself, if I should just do vegetarianism for a while... let's see how long I can last.

Wikipedia/Vegetarianism

Vegetarianism is the practice of following a plant-based diet including fruits, vegetables, cereal grains, nuts, and seeds, with or without dairy products and eggs. A vegetarian does not eat meat, including: red meat, game, poultry, fish, crustacea, shellfish, and products of animal slaughter such as animal-derived gelatin and rennet. There are a number of vegetarian diets. A lacto-vegetarian diet includes dairy products but excludes eggs, an ovo-vegetarian diet includes eggs but not dairy products, and a lacto-ovo vegetarian diet includes both eggs and dairy products. A vegan diet excludes all animal products, including dairy products, eggs, and honey. Vegetarianism may be adopted for ethical, health, environmental, religious, political, cultural, aesthetic, economic, or other reasons.

Semi-vegetarian diets consist largely of vegetarian foods, but may include fish and sometimes poultry, as well as dairy products and eggs. With these diets, the word "meat" is often defined as only mammalian flesh. A pescetarian diet, for example, includes "fish but no meat". The colloquial application of the word "vegetarian" to such diets has led vegetarian groups, such as the Vegetarian Society, to clarify that such fish or poultry-based diets are not vegetarian, due to the fact that fish and birds are animals.

Varieties of vegetarianism
The following diets are subsets of vegetarianism.
  1. Lacto-ovo vegetarianism is a vegetarian diet that permits consumption of animal products such eggs, milk, and honey.
  2. Lacto vegetarianism permits milk but abstains from eggs.
  3. Ovo vegetarianism permits eggs but abstains from milk.
  4. Veganism abstains from all animal flesh and animal products, including milk, honey, and eggs.
  5. Raw veganism is a diet of fresh and uncooked fruit, nuts, seeds, and vegetables.
  6. Fruitarianism is a diet of only fruit, nuts, seeds, and other plant matter that can be gathered without harming the plant.
  7. Su vegetarianism (such as in Buddhism), excludes all animal products as well as vegetables in the allium family (which have the characteristic aroma of onion and garlic): onion, garlic, scallions, leeks, or shallots.
Strict vegetarians also avoid products that may use animal ingredients not included in their labels or which use animal products in their manufacturing e.g. cheeses that use animal rennet (enzymes from animal stomach lining), gelatin (from animal skin, bones, and connective tissue), some sugars that are whitened with bone char (e.g. cane sugar, but not beet sugar) and alcohol clarified with gelatin or crushed shellfish and sturgeon.

Semi-vegetarian diets
Semi-vegetarian diets primarily consist of vegetarian foods, though occasional exceptions are made for some non-vegetarian foods, including fish, poultry and red meat. These diets may be followed by those who choose to reduce the amount of animal flesh consumed as a way of transitioning to a vegetarian diet or for health, environmental, or other reasons. The term "semi-vegetarian" is contested by most vegetarian groups, who believe that vegetarianism must exclude all animal flesh. Many individuals describe themselves as "vegetarian" while practicing a semi-vegetarian diet. Semi-vegetarian diets include:
  1. Flexitarianism: A diet that consists primarily of vegetarian food, but includes occasional exceptions such as red meat.
  2. Pescetarianism: A diet that is mainly vegetarian but also includes fish and sometimes other seafood. I might want to consider this
  3. Pollotarianism: A diet that is mainly vegetarian but also includes poultry. I would really love to consider this, but I think I'd be cheating...
  4. Macrobiotic diet: A diet of mostly whole grains and beans. Not all macrobiotics are vegetarians, as some consume fish.

cny2010 @ weston & menumbok.....

The Unicorn, waiting for its legs.

Kids running in excitement, going everywhere the Unicorn goes.

A predictable stunt, the Unicorns are supposed to go around finishing all the oranges and the beers, later one of it would come up with a lucky number in its drunkedness

This particular Unicorn is a carnivore, preferring young tender human meats, while the other preferred beer and citrus

The lucky numbers, seen from 2 angles... bah, quickly go buy 4D

Henry lights the fire-crackers

King and Queen of Weston, my uncle and aunt

Sunset

YeeSang

Fireworks in Menumbok

Bah tag in Facebook eh...

Celebrating Aunty An's birthday on 2nd day CNY

20100220

5 OK differences..........

I tend to agree with point number 1, 2 and 4......

Dating Tips: 5 Things You Don't Need to Have in Common
By dating editor Melissa Noble for YourTango.com, taken from Yahoo!

Here are personality differences you should try to overlook. C'mon. Be the bigger person.

If you were to take an in-depth look at some of the couples who've successfully weathered every relationship storm, you'd be shocked to learn how little they might (superficially) have in common.

Sure it's cute to spend weeknights quoting "The Simpsons" in unison or have deep literary James Joycean discussions while rooting for the same football team with matching BBQ-tinged fingers. But, honestly, many wonderful relationships are built on differences. It's how we vary the gene pool, after all. In fact, the forces of attraction are so sophisticated that one should always rely on their gut -- not clever packaging -- when deciding who stays and goes.

Below is a list of differences that, unlike basic manners, don't have to be deal-breakers.

#1. Music Tastes
If you're cut from a cloth where self-worth is directly tied to taste in music, then this one may be tough. You may wince when you find that your mate du jour has never heard of Aaron Copland. You may want to run away screaming when they lack much of an opinion about Morrissey (and haven't even heard of The Smiths), but we think this is foolish. Unlike innate kindness or empathy, music knowledge is something that can be taught. And shared. So go and create that mix tape already.

#2. Intellectual Tastes
Let's say you make a visit to bookstore and you're drawn to Nietzsche, but your lover is more of a trashy memoir/easy beach read person. So what? At least you're both, er, reading. OK, OK, we get it. You may see reading material, education level, and profession as a reflection of a person's intelligence -- but this isn't always the case, my friend. What you really need to look for is breadth of knowledge in the chosen area. You might be working on a graduate degree in anthropology from a fancy-pants university, but what do you know about laying bricks? The scene in "My Cousin Vinny" when Marisa Tomei unleashes her almost God-like knowledge of car tires and all but frees her man's clients comes to mind as a perfect example.

#3. Friend Tastes
Yes, birds of a feather flock together and you are who you hang with and blah blah blah. We've heard it. We've heard it all. But just because your boyfriend's college buddies are a poor (very poor) man's parody of "Wedding Crashers" and you don't connect with her BFF's discussions about "The Hills" (but is it real?!) doesn't mean this new flame is a no go. Now if you notice a trend that's a bit more, er, red flag-y -- say multiple friends in jails across the country -- then perhaps it's something to look into. Perhaps.

#4. Spending/Saving Habits
This one's dicey. You should absolutely err on the side of caution when building a future with someone who, say, gambles away their paycheck. But research suggests that savers are attracted to spenders and vice versa. Professors at the Wharton School of Finance and Northwestern University say the spender/saver relationship is just another way in which opposites attract.

#5. Style Tastes
This one's simple: if you don't like what they're working with, make sweet suggestions. No matter where you are, there's a mall somewhere close by, an outfit looking for a new home, and a credit card just aching to be put to use. Sometimes it is that easy.

20100216

random strips from calvin and hobbes.......

On life....
On life and death.....

On life goes on.....

31 lessons in life according to arteo.....

I've compiled 31 best lesson Life has taught me in the past 31 years, and yes, (some) of them are taken from inspirational webpages, but I still find them extremely relevant to my own experience...
Lesson 25: most important things in life aren't things
  1. I’m convinced that growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. Happy 31st Birthday to ME!!
  2. I’ve learned that a cup of designer coffee is worth half a month’s supply of breakfast instant coffee at home.
  3. I’ve learned that a lot of the things in life are held up by the decisions I make.
  4. I’ve learned that even when I have the right to be angry, I still don’t have the right to be cruel.
  5. I’ve learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
  6. I’ve learned that I can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying about the future.
  7. I’ve learned that I do not stop playing because I’m getting old, but I’ll grow old when I stop playing
  8. I’ve learned that I must not be angry when I cannot make others as I wish them to be, since I cannot make myself as I wish to be.
  9. I’ve learned that I must not correct a mistake with another mistake.
  10. I’ve learned that I shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change my life forever.
  11. I’ve learned that if I'm headed in the wrong direction, God still allows U-turns!
  12. I’ve learned that if we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, I'd quickly grab mine back.
  13. I’ve learned that it hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but more painful it is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how I feel.
  14. I’ve learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes I have to learn to forgive myself.
  15. I’ve learned that it’s not where I am in life, it’s who I have by my side that matters
  16. I’ve learned that it's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to me, myself, and no one else.
  17. I’ve learned that just because someone doesn't love me the way I want them to, doesn't mean they don't love me with all they have.
  18. I’ve learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
  19. I’ve learned that life isn't about finding myself, it's about creating myself
  20. I’ve learned that life may simple, it’s just not easy. Same goes for love.
  21. I’ve learned that no matter how good a friend is, they are going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
  22. I’ve learned that once I feel like going to the gym, I have 15 minutes grace period of actually get myself ready, or else I wouldn’t go at all that day.
  23. I’ve learned that the best way to succeed in life is to act on the advice I give to others.
  24. I’ve learned that the diet that starts tomorrow is a myth.
  25. I’ve learned that the most important things in life aren't things.
  26. I’ve learned that the only people I need in my life are the ones, that prove they need me in theirs
  27. I’ve learned that there is a very, very, very, very, very, very thin line between knowing when to give up and when to try harder
  28. I’ve learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. I’ve heard that the same goes for true love.
  29. I’ve learned that while it is important to win, it's even more important to remain undefeated no matter what happens.
  30. I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice, and more practice, and more practice, and more practice...
  31. I’ve learned that I don’t know much yet..... or may never come to a point that I will know enough about anything in life

31 of arteo's favourite watch.........

Below is the list of my all time favourite movies that I've watched, from 1979 onwards (according to production year):
  1. The Muppet Movie (1979)
  2. The World According to Garp (1982)
  3. Who Framed Roger Rabbit (1988)
  4. Batman (1989)
  5. Dead Poet Society (1989)
  6. When Harry Met Sally... (1989)
  7. Die Hard 2 (1990)
  8. Hook (1991)
  9. Mrs. Doubtfire (1993)
  10. The Nightmare Before Christmas (1993)
  11. Pulp Fiction (1994)
  12. Speed (1994)
  13. Babe (1995)
  14. Toy Story (1995)
  15. Mission: Impossible (1996)
  16. Romeo + Juliet (1996)
  17. Star Trek: First Contact (1996)
  18. Austin Powers: International Man of Mystery (1997)
  19. Boogie Nights (1997)
  20. Contact (1997)
  21. Face/Off (1997)
  22. Gattaca (1997)
  23. Good Will Hunting (1997)
  24. Men in Black (1997)
  25. My Best Friend's Wedding (1997)
  26. The Fifth Element (1997)
  27. A Bug's Life (1998)
  28. Armageddon (1998)
  29. Babe: Pig in the City (1998)
  30. Deep Impact (1998)
  31. Doctor Dolittle (1998)
  32. Patch Adams (1998)
  33. Pleasantville (1998)
  34. Star Trek: Insurrection (1998)
  35. The Mighty (1998)
  36. The Truman Show (1998)
  37. The X Files (1998)
  38. There's Something About Mary (1998)
  39. Urban Legend (1998)
  40. What Dreams May Come (1998)
  41. Wild Things (1998)
  42. 10 Things I Hate About You (1999)
  43. Austin Powers: The Spy Who Shagged Me (1999)
  44. Dogma (1999)
  45. Fight Club (1999)
  46. Star Wars: Episode I - The Phantom Menace (1999)
  47. The Matrix (1999)
  48. The Sixth Sense (1999)
  49. Toy Story 2 (1999)
  50. Charlie's Angels (2000)
  51. Dancer in the Dark (2000)
  52. Finding Forrester (2000)
  53. How the Grinch stole Christmas (2000)
  54. Nutty Professor II: The Klumps (2000)
  55. Remember the Titans (2000)
  56. X-Men (2000)
  57. X-Men (2000)
  58. A Beautiful Mind (2001)
  59. Artificial Intelligence: A.I. (2001)
  60. Billy Elliot (2001)
  61. Monsters Inc. (2001)
  62. Monsters, Inc. (2001)
  63. Moulin Rouge! (2001)
  64. Moulin Rouge! (2001)
  65. Shrek (2001)
  66. The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring (2001)
  67. Y tu mamá también (2001)
  68. A Walk To Remember (2002)
  69. Austin Powers in Goldmember (2002)
  70. Bend It Like Beckham (2002)
  71. Star Trek Nemesis (2002)
  72. Star Wars Episode II: Attack of the Clones (2002)
  73. The Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers (2002)
  74. Charlie's Angels: Full Throttle (2003)
  75. Love Actually (2003)
  76. The Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King (2003)
  77. X2 (2003)
  78. Shrek 2 (2004)
  79. The Passion of the Christ (2004)
  80. Batman Begins (2005)
  81. Constantine (2005)
  82. Robots (2005)
  83. Star Wars Episode III: Revenge of the Sith (2005)
  84. The Exorcism of Emily Rose (2005)
  85. Wallace and Gromit: The Curse of the Were-Rabbit (2005)
  86. Borat! Cultural Learnings of America for Make Benefit Glorious Nation of Kazakhstan (2006)
  87. Happy Feet (2006)
  88. Superman Returns (2006)
  89. The Da Vinci Code (2006)
  90. The Devil Wears Prada (2006)
  91. X-Men: The Last Stand (2006)
  92. Across the Universe (2007)
  93. Juno (2007)
  94. Shrek the Third (2007)
  95. Transformers (2007)
  96. Sex and the City: The Movie (2008)
  97. Star Wars: The Clone Wars (2008)
  98. WALL-E (2008)
  99. Avatar (2009)
  100. Monsters vs. Aliens (2009)
  101. Star Trek (2009)
  102. Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen (2009)
  103. X-Men Origins: Wolverine (2009)
Okay, my bad... I meant to stop at 31 but I got carried away...

weight loss tips from yahoo.......

Taken from Yahoo!Health 16/02/10

6 Easy Slim-Down Strategies

By Liz Vaccariello, Editor-in-Chief, Prevention

Losing weight is about a series of small steps--one less dessert here, an extra 10 minutes on the elliptical there--plus smart lifestyle moves that continually inch you closer to your goals. But like any change, try to do everything at once and you could wind up feeling deprived and deflated (and not in the good way). So instead of vowing to cut calories AND exercise 7 days a week AND forsake ice cream and pizza for the rest of your life, start out with a few of these research-proven tricks that can help you drop pounds. Once you've mastered one, add in another; before you know it you'll see results on the scale--no drastic changes required.

1) Weigh yourself daily
Why It Works: Weekly weigh-ins are a staple of many popular weight loss programs, but some studies show that daily weighing can be key to lasting weight loss. When researchers at the University of Minnesota monitored the scale habits of 1,800 dieting adults, they found that those who stepped on every day lost an average of 12 pounds over 2 years (weekly scale watchers lost only 6) and were less likely to regain lost weight. Step on the scale first thing every morning, when you weigh the least. Expect small day-to-day fluctuations because of bloating or dehydration, but if your weight creeps up by 2% (that's just 3 pounds if you weigh 150), it's time to skip dessert.
I think I can continue to do this... been doing it for the past year already. Maybe need to work with the other tips to dip into the synergistic effect...

2) Keep TV viewing under 2 hours a day
Why It Works: TV junkies miss out on calorie-burning activities like backyard tag with the kids; instead, they become sitting ducks for junk-food ads. One study found that adults who watch more than 2 hours of TV per day take in 7% more calories and consume more sugary snacks than those who watch less than an hour a day. Wean yourself off the tube by introducing other activities into your life. Eliminate the temptation to watch between-show filler by recording your must-see programs so you can fast-forward through the ads. Or subscribe to a mail-order DVD service like Netflix, and make a movie the only thing you watch all day.
This is easy. The only TV I watch nowadays are the Nanny reruns at 12am... maybe that's the problem too...

3) Eat 4 g of fiber at every meal
Why It Works: A high-fiber diet can lower your caloric intake without making you feel deprived. In a Tufts University study, women who ate 13 g of fiber or less per day were five times as likely to be overweight as those who ate more fiber. Experts see a number of mechanisms through which fiber promotes weight loss: It may slow down eating because it requires more chewing, speed the passage of food through the digestive tract, and boost satiety hormones. To get 25 g of fiber a day, make sure you eat six meals or snacks, each of which contains about 4 g of fiber. For to-go snacks, buy a piece of fruit; it's handier than vegetables, so it's an easy way to up your fiber intake. One large apple has just as much fiber (5 g) as a cup of raw broccoli.
Will try on this... but I eat mandarin oranges like nobody's business this season, I don't see myself slimming down!!

4) Sleep at least 7 hours a night
Why It Works: A University of Chicago study found that people deprived of Zzzs had lower levels of the hormones that control appetite. "The research suggested that short sleep durations could be a risk factor for obesity," says James Gangwisch, Ph.D., an epidemiologist from Columbia University Medical Center. Sure enough, his follow-up study of 9,588 Americans found that women who slept 4 hours or less per night were 234% more likely to be obese. The key number for most people is 7 hours or more a night, he says, so set an early bedtime and stick to it.
Okay, guilty as charged. Will try this year.

5) Drink 8 glasses of water per day
Why It Works: Water is not just a thirst quencher--it may also speed the body's metabolism. Researchers in Germany found that drinking two 8-ounce glasses of cold water increased their subjects' metabolic rate by 30%, and the effect persisted for 90 minutes. One-third of the boost came from the body's efforts to warm the water, but the rest was due to the work the body did to absorb it. "When drinking water, no calories are ingested but calories are used, unlike when drinking sodas, where additional calories are ingested and possibly stored," explains the lead researcher, Michael Boschmann, M.D., of University Medicine Berlin. Increasing water consumption to 8 glasses per day may help you lose about 8 pounds in a year, he says, so try drinking a glass before meals and snacks and before consuming sweetened drinks or juices.
I'll cut off cola and the likes. But I can still take Pepsi Max, right?

6) Stick to an 8-hour workday
Why It Works: A University of Helsinki study of 7,000 adults found that those who'd packed on pounds in the previous year were more likely to have logged overtime hours. Lack of time for diet and exercise is most likely the cause, but it's also possible that work stress has a direct effect on weight gain through changes in hormones like cortisol. Set firm limits on your workday so that when you're done, you still have the oomph to take a bike ride and cook a healthy dinner. To help you stay productive enough to finish on time, set an hourly alarm; when it goes off, deal with your most pressing duties.
This can be difficult when I'm in Beluran...

But my biggest problem maybe because my diet always starts tomorrow... Isn't yours?

20100214

arteo turns 31........

Emme, Brandon, Effendy, STeo, Arteo, BKTeo, Grandma and Nigel
Didn't want to make a big fuss out of this day, but still glad and thankful for all the well-wishes by phone and on my Facebook wall ;o)
And a big thank you to Boidea gang for throwing a low-key surprise with song and cakes. Yes, I said cakes...

31 songs on arteo's playlist...

By no means exhaustive, I've looked back to my favourite tunes on my Sony Walkman, and decided that these 31 songs brings back most memories of the past 31 years. Each of these songs has had their own air-time, as the theme song at some point of my life.
  1. Angel's Lullaby - Richard Marx
  2. Canon in D - Pachelbel
  3. Desperado - Eagles
  4. Doesn't Really Matter - Janet Jackson
  5. Fire and Rain - James Taylor
  6. Free - Lighthouse Family
  7. Getaran Jiwa - P.Ramlee
  8. Glad - Tyler Hilton
  9. Good Riddance (Time of Your Life) - Green Day
  10. Grace Kelly - Mika
  11. High - Lighthouse Family
  12. I Don't Want To Be - Gavin DeGraw
  13. If - Bread
  14. I'll Be There - Jackson Five
  15. Just One Me - Carrol Spinney
  16. Kekasih Gelapku - Pasha, Ungu
  17. Love Always - Roger Wang
  18. Lovely day - Bill Withers
  19. Lovin' You - Minnie Rupperton
  20. Mulberry Bush - Mia Palencia
  21. My Way - Frank Sinatra
  22. Postcard From Heaven - Lighthouse Family
  23. Prayer To St Peter - Edwin McCain
  24. Senandung Rindu - Tohpati
  25. Somewhere O'er The Rainbow - Judy Garland
  26. Story Teller - Emil Chow
  27. Superman - Five For Fighting
  28. Tercipta Untukku - Pasha, Ungu
  29. Welcome To Our World - Chris Rice
  30. What a Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong
  31. You've Got a Friend - James Taylor

20100210

arteo's newest coffee blog.....

I've been giving it a thought, about commercializing my coffee blog and getting my own (dot) com for philosoffee. The proper website is not yet up, but I've already got ideas of merchandising it, heh..

Do drop in, leave a message or two. I've got nothing much up yet, but that's just a matter of importing all I have from blogspot to this new one.

20100201

KASIH fund raising projects updates.........

I would again like to personally thank you, friends and relatives, for being supportive of KASIH's effort to raise fund to support their works in HIV/AIDS care in Kota Kinabalu. Two fund raising efforts have been successfully carried out since end of last year, and during the recent committee meeting, some figures were given out for transparency of financial management of the funds.

For the Cupcakes Project, a total donation of RM350.00 were collected from friends and relatives to support the cost the cupcakes. The bakery, during the last minute of delivery, decided to slash down some more the cost of the cakes, bringing it down to RM200, so we have extra RM150 from the estimated cost of cupcakes. Yippee!! During distribution, random contribution were collected from the public using milk-tins with perforated caps, and although skeptical about the collection at first, we managed to round up RM743.85 in half a morning!!

My car was fined for parking on the curb that morning, and KASIH has been kind enough to foot the summon, hehe... RM30 down on charity for me ;o}

Total of nett collection in cash for Project Cupcake 2009: RM863.85

The second project was slightly more ambitious, called Bag2School Project, with aims to collect RM5000 from monetary contribution alone. The project was closed at 50% the marked target, raising only RM2500 in donation. This money is used to help children infected and affected by HIV to buy new school uniforms, stationery and school-books.

A lot of contribution came about in forms of goods, creative ideas and services were brought into this project, and for these, I would like to thank these companies for their kind contribution:
  1. STARBUCKS COFFEE (KK)
  2. BODYSHOP (KK)
  3. V-CHOCOLATE
  4. TROIKA DESIGN
  5. IDEAL PRINTING
  6. not forgetting all friends and relatives that has made financial and time contribution towards this project
Gross total of cash collection for Project Bag2School RM2300.00

Not too bad for a start, eh?

20100129

ever when i grow up......

Reading through the website of the real Patch Adams leaves me a sobering realisation that whatever he is, I am not. It isn't the most joyous feeling to have to start a weekend with, but impressive enough to know that if I ever want to grow up to be like him, I've got to buck-up, get some serious planning done.... and put on my red nose.

Hunter Campbell "Patch" Adams, M.D. (born May 28, 1945 in Washington, D.C.) is an American physician, social activist, citizen diplomat, professional clown, performer, and author. He founded the Gesundheit! Institute in 1972. Each year he organizes a group of volunteers from around the world to travel to various countries (including post-war Bosnia in 1998) where they dress as clowns, to bring hope and joy to orphans, patients, and other people. His life inspired the film Patch Adams, starring Robin Williams. Adams is currently based in Arlington, Virginia. In collaboration with the institute, he promotes a different health care model (i.e. one not funded by insurance policies).

a word from the real patch adams......

Dear Friends of Gesundheit, I am sorry it has been so long since I have written. There is so much to do and so little time to do it all in—I want to sing sweet gratitude for my life, for friends, for the joy of nature and the arts, and the radiant privilege of working every day for peace and justice for all people.

Just look at the last six weeks: November began with lectures and performances in Mexico, Tennessee, and Nebraska. Then I went on my 25th annual Russian Clown Tour with 36 clowns from 10 countries, ages 16-86. Morrighan Clinco organized the trip with us. We’ve known Morrighan a long time; she first went on the Russia trip thirteen years ago. She was 12 years old. The biggest test for me on the trip was that my 22 year old son, Lars, was my roommate. We were inseparable and seriously into bad behavior. A couple of the highlights: Rosy, from Switzerland, who is in her 70s and on her seventh trip danced a wonderfully hilarious erotic dance using a small Swiss horn at the talent night. 86 year old Freck, from Holland, showed it’s never too late to try something new by doing his first mooning in the annual group mooning shot. Swine flu closed many institutions to us in both cities but opened up some new exciting ones. One of the many delights was in St. Petersburg—the music group CKY was staying at our hotel and late one night I got to play air guitar with their lead singer.

From Russia I went to Poland for four nights in three cities hosted by Alexandra, who was the first Little Person I’ve had the privilege to meet and befriend. It felt like we’d known each other for years. She, at 3 feet, was my translator and we were a pair, engaged 12-16 hours each day. Medical and other students clowned each day with us, enjoying the message of loving, fun care. The friends I made there make me want to return soon.

I then flew to Milan, Italy for two packed days with Cristina, Ginevra and Susan, as well as the School for Designing a Society: Mark, Rob, Danielle, and Bob. For three years, the SDAS has led a week-long activism intensive in Italy. I joined them after Cristina and I did fundraisers at a Homeopathic Factory and a Rotary dinner. Susan and I had created a new four hour workshop “The Emperor’s New Clothes” exploring issues of being silent and speaking up. Particularly in Italy, participants seemed excited to explore these issues.

After Italy, I came home for a few days to catch up on mail, phone, and faxes. And then I was off again for a glorious week of fundraising in Concord, Massachusetts orchestrated by Stuart Weeks, a true transcendentalist. Rarely in our 39 years has someone gone to such an effort to help us. The first day, he drove me to Beacon, New York to spend a long afternoon with Pete Seeger and his wife Toshi in his lovely home on the Hudson. I heard Pete sing in Washington DC in 1963 at Martin Luther King’s “I have a dream” speech and have held him in my activist’s heart ever since. I watched Pete, who is 90, running through his house and preparing a salad for a potluck activist’s meeting that night. A truly persistent sandwich. I was thrilled to give Toshi a massage and hear her story. Over the next six days I had forty encounters due to Stuart’s meticulous effort to expose our work in hopeful environments. It began early the first morning at Ralph Waldo Emerson’s grave with Stuart reading his wisdom. From there to Orchard house, the home of Louisa May Alcott, where activism flourished for civil and women’s rights. We met out back with a current version of the School of Philosophy. The week ended on the way to the airport when I met with Ryan, now in Harvard Law School, who was assistant to Bill Gates Sr. I have to thank my hostess Mary Jane who let me stay in her home. AT 75, she still teaches school and is a shining example of why I say the school teacher is the most important member of human culture. And another bow to Mildred, 89, who we visited in her beautiful library (she has more George Gissing novels than anyone I’ve ever met). Her smile gave me life. I came home thinking we can build.

As a dessert this last weekend, one of our youth clowns, Lily Huggins, threw a fundraiser for us at the Boyd Theater in Richmond where Lydia and I had our first date in 1971. Levi was there selling the Gesundheit t-shirts and scrubs he and his father, David, have created for us as a fundraising effort. When enough friends help as these dear souls have, we will get built.

And to finish these six weeks off—my beloved Susan came yesterday for our annual 10 weeks together over the winter. Yum.

Dear friends … help me. As we enter our 40th year let’s get ready to build this coming summer. This puny, embarrassing, meaningless media around health care reform would never have happened had our model been up and showing a hospital operating at 10% of the cost where staff and patients are blessed and having fun. Until we show them an alternative, the insurance and pharmaceutical companies can buy our inability to care for our people. Feel the thrill of persistence. Taste it on your tongue.

Please help us.

Dr Patch Adams, 23Dec2009

http://www.patchadams.org/